My kids are young. My older son is 5 and a half, my younger son is 4. I find myself answering their questions with "you'll understand when you're older" much too often. Like when my younger son asked how he came to be in my belly before he was born. My older son, always acting like the much smarter, much older boy said "well daddy put you in there." Then came - "how did you put me in mommy's belly?" and we had no idea how to answer that so we subtly changed the subject with "look, candy!" They sometimes tend to ask strange questions like "why do birds poop while flying?" or "do fish fart?" and at these times I'm not only shocked by the question but slightly embarrassed when my older son tells me "you're older, you should know" after I've simply shrugged my shoulders with a question mark hovering over my head. So to avoid seeming stupid every time I'm faced with a rather odd question from a rather smart 5-year old, I explain in the most intelligent-sounding way that these things shall be understood in adulthood.
The reality is that I always HATED when my parents used this famous sentence with me because at any given age as a child I was absolutely sure that I could understand anything and that I needed to know. And I probably could, in a theoretical way. What separates theoretical knowledge from the practical kind is experience and that is definitely something that comes with age. I understood pretty much everything I was learning in college but it wasn't until I actually got hands-on experience in the subject and used the information in specific situations that I gained a complete understanding of the material I had learned.
I understand now why my parents often told me I'd understand when I grow up. Life teaches you things along the way, and you don't need previous guidance for the lessons you'll eventually have to learn on your own and experience them in your own individual way. It saddens me to think how society and the system will, over time, destroy the innocence of my children and all other children. Their purity will be poisoned by life as they get older. It's good and bad all the same time.
The School of Life - teaching humans how to become animals since the beginning of time.
The reality is that I always HATED when my parents used this famous sentence with me because at any given age as a child I was absolutely sure that I could understand anything and that I needed to know. And I probably could, in a theoretical way. What separates theoretical knowledge from the practical kind is experience and that is definitely something that comes with age. I understood pretty much everything I was learning in college but it wasn't until I actually got hands-on experience in the subject and used the information in specific situations that I gained a complete understanding of the material I had learned.
I understand now why my parents often told me I'd understand when I grow up. Life teaches you things along the way, and you don't need previous guidance for the lessons you'll eventually have to learn on your own and experience them in your own individual way. It saddens me to think how society and the system will, over time, destroy the innocence of my children and all other children. Their purity will be poisoned by life as they get older. It's good and bad all the same time.
The School of Life - teaching humans how to become animals since the beginning of time.